Monday, June 1, 2009

Where are we leading into?

No true relationships, No long live wedding,
So many breakups, so many Divorces, Both in love and arranged Marriages...
With these entire, where are we leading into?

After a long time, I went for my colleague marriage some days back.
The marriage was too grand - The bride, the groom, the marriage hall, food, the crowd, the gifts, what else…
You think what’s so much great in this?

I felt great because it’s a love marriage. Not only for that, it’s because their love came till marriage. Not only for that. It’s because it’s an arranged marriage too.
They are childhood friends/lovers and both didn’t want to go away from anyone. Besides all their family problems, education, work etc., they are together now and for being together in future.
I pray and wish them all the best for their future.
Let the basic ingredients for the marriage life - Understanding and adjustment always be there with them.

(I felt really happy about them because in this cheating, unrealistic world...
There are people who think all these relationships are just for time pass and some people who don’t think about their families too. Everybody thinks selfishly; no matter what happens to others; people just live for their happiness. )

But one thing which hurts me till now is some of the words from the crowd -
"The girl is very rich and so the guy was so strong to marry her. Now he has got both. Both his lover and the money!!!!"