Where are we leading into?

No true relationships, No long live wedding,
So many breakups, so many Divorces, Both in love and arranged Marriages...
With these entire, where are we leading into?

After a long time, I went for my colleague marriage some days back.
The marriage was too grand - The bride, the groom, the marriage hall, food, the crowd, the gifts, what else…
You think what’s so much great in this?

I felt great because it’s a love marriage. Not only for that, it’s because their love came till marriage. Not only for that. It’s because it’s an arranged marriage too.
They are childhood friends/lovers and both didn’t want to go away from anyone. Besides all their family problems, education, work etc., they are together now and for being together in future.
I pray and wish them all the best for their future.
Let the basic ingredients for the marriage life - Understanding and adjustment always be there with them.

(I felt really happy about them because in this cheating, unrealistic world...
There are people who think all these relationships are just for time pass and some people who don’t think about their families too. Everybody thinks selfishly; no matter what happens to others; people just live for their happiness. )

But one thing which hurts me till now is some of the words from the crowd -
"The girl is very rich and so the guy was so strong to marry her. Now he has got both. Both his lover and the money!!!!"

Dear Friend,

I want you to be strong more than the Rock,
I want you to be hard more than the Iron,
I want you to be rigid more than the Plastic,
Not to me...

Show it when you are hit with problems
Show it to the ones who leaves you with no understanding,
Show it to the God who thinks always he wins by making you down
Show it...

But, hold it till the time where you need to melt,
May be not now… But soon...

Go off the deep end

End of an End – where there will not be any beginning, where there should not be any way to hold anything or anyone, where it says that’s all for life, there is nothing beyond that; you are free to go from your unrealistic, untruthful, changing and cheating world.

Yes… Life gives us so many experiences, lessons, ways in, ways out etc... but how long can we get this ?– good or bad, useful or not useful. My life's resume is getting overloaded. It is looking for an end of page to get stopped.
End for everything; end for the journey. Do not destroy; just end it.

Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof.

Looking forward the end…
Sooner the better!

Bye Bye 2008

2008 – A shortest chapter in my book, which was read in a fraction of second. I always want to have this chapter in mind in my future days.
‘Not whatever we see is true and not whatever we don’t see is untrue’.

Now its another fresh year 2009.
The start is not so good for me when it is seen from other’s perspective.
I welcome you with a smile though the reply from you is not filled with joy and happiness at most of the times.
I wish all your joyless performances shall end with me and should not affect my near and dear ones.

Searching in the world

 

All I want is, be truthful to me.
I follow,
Who can assure me that they will be!

It’s me, I do, and I will be.
I hear many voices above
But who follow the same?

All I want is, be truthful to me!
I don’t want name.
I don’t want fame.

I don’t want money.
I don’t want luxury.
All I want is, be truthful to me!

I don’t want beauty
I don’t want color
All I want is, be truthful to me!

Something I can believe for
Something I can give for
Something I can respect for
Something I can be true for

True relations,
True friends,
True partner,
All I want is, be truthful to me!

What we need?

Uncertainty is inevitable. But worrying is optional.
There is so much pain due to uncertainty.
Pain is inevitable but suffering is optional.
What we need?

Which is the best way of living life? Living for others or living for ourselves?
We can hear people saying ‘Life has become more complicated now. It is very much difficult to come up in each and every stage of our life’.
Let us not analyze our life. Let’s live; analysis is what makes it complicated.

Success is a measure as decided by others.
Satisfaction is a measure as decided by us.
What we need, success or satisfaction?

Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons to Enhance Mental Strength. Our inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when we are free from those purposeful roadblocks.

If we look outside, we will not know where we are going. Looking outside, we only dream. Looking inside, we awaken. Eyes provide sight; Heart provides insight.

Always look at how far we have come rather than how far we have to go. Always count our blessing, not what we are missing.

Seek not to find who we are, but to determine who we want to be. Let's stop looking for a purpose as to why we are here. That is not our duty.
Let's create it. For each and everyone, their life is a process of creation and not a process of discovery.

Facing the past without regret and handling the present with confidence prepares for the future without fear.

Keep the faith - Don't believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs.
Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve. Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

P.S. The understanding of life comes only when we live it not by analyzing and worrying!

Live the Present

If life can have the rewind button, I wish I would go to the place where I feel I could change my life from the one I am living right now. Next thought comes to my mind is, why can’t I do the same from this moment so that I wont regret later in future for not doing the same now.

Enough of drowning, regretting and thinking about the past. Rewind button for the life doesn’t exists at all but the pause and refresh buttons works fine.

“Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better”.